{"product_id":"the-shared-chores-playbook","title":"The Shared Chores Playbook","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eYou've asked five times. The socks are still on the floor. Somewhere between the asking and the socks something breaks, and it's easy to read that break as defiance or laziness.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIt's usually neither. \"Empty the dishwasher\" sounds like one instruction and is really six separate demands, and a child can be fluent in five of them and stuck on the sixth. Twenty-one pages of systems that share the load rather than adding to it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat's inside\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSix skills hiding inside one chore\u003c\/strong\u003e — getting started, holding the list, knowing what comes next, judging how long, tolerating the boredom, and stopping the good thing. Find the one step where it stalls and you've found the step to scaffold.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eThree shifts to make first\u003c\/strong\u003e — from reminding to accompanying, from consequences to points, from instructions to a visible list. They cost nothing and decide whether anything else works.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBody doubling\u003c\/strong\u003e — company, not supervision. Why sitting in the room doing your own task is the part that does the work.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eA twenty-minute session, minute by minute\u003c\/strong\u003e — from the five-minute warning through to marking the board, with four sentences worth memorizing.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eFive rules for points\u003c\/strong\u003e — what separates a system a child trusts from a chart nobody looks at by week three, plus a starting scale for two-minute jobs, daily chores and the dreaded ones.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eThe reward menu\u003c\/strong\u003e — three price tiers built with them rather than for them, and the one category that must never go on the board.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eThe board and the clock\u003c\/strong\u003e — four rules that keep a board alive, and four fixes for a child who can't feel time passing.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSay this, not that\u003c\/strong\u003e — eight swaps for the same request, and what to say when a sibling calls it unfair.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eWhen it falls apart\u003c\/strong\u003e — five ways it collapses around week three, each with its repair. Including the one where the person who can't keep it going is you.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eThe one-page version\u003c\/strong\u003e — every rule in the guide on a single sheet, in the order you need them during a session. This is the one that goes on the fridge.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eThree pages to print\u003c\/strong\u003e — a weekly chore board, a four-week points tracker, and a reward menu to fill in together.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eOne idea from inside:\u003c\/strong\u003e nothing earned is ever taken away. The moment points can be confiscated, the board stops being a game and becomes a threat, and cooperation ends with it. Most home point systems fail on exactly this.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWho it's for\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eParents and caregivers raising neurodivergent kids, roughly ages 6 to 13, in households where chores have become the recurring argument. Adults are on the board too, with adult chores and adult rewards.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat it's not\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eNot a discipline system. Nothing here is lost as a consequence, and that rule is load-bearing.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eNot a chore chart. A chart is one page of this; the rest is why charts stop working by week three.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eNot therapy, an assessment, or a way to work out whether a child is neurodivergent.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eNot a system that runs itself. It asks you to be in the room, doing your own task, and that is the part that does the work.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eFormat and delivery\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003e21-page PDF, US Letter, designed to print\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThree print-ready pages plus a one-page quick reference for the fridge\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eInstant download after checkout\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eReads in about 25 minutes; print three pages and start this week\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eThe bundle\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis guide is one of five in the Neurodivergent Parenting bundle — $47 for all five, against $95 bought separately.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003chr\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eThis is general information for home use, not an assessment, treatment plan, therapy, or professional advice. If daily activities are consistently distressing, speak with your family doctor or an occupational therapist.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"PDF Guide Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":58323900334383,"sku":null,"price":19.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0995\/7962\/5775\/files\/The_Shared_Chores_Playbook_HERO.jpg?v=1786933046","url":"https:\/\/pdfguidepress.net\/products\/the-shared-chores-playbook","provider":"PDF Guide Press","version":"1.0","type":"link"}